I too have noticed this Stuckin, but I did not really understand it until I began to study the deep things of islam, they have exactly the same issue but to a truly horrific extent, two key factors are the internal verses external locus of control and the pain and repetition of being a high control group.
Nocolai Sennels, Danish prison psychologist explains it very well, worth a read - https://www.jihadwatch.org/2013/09/nicolai-sennels-psychology-why-islam-creates-monsters